*steals ur girl* *mom finds out and makes me return her and apologize*
When theres a fly in your room and you’re trying to kill it then it hides for an hour then you finally find it
welcome to womens clothing where the sizes are made up and the measurements don’t matter
"Don’t be defined by your condition" often seems to mean "pretend your condition doesn’t shape your life or else".
"Don’t let [traumatic life-altering event that causes long-term emotional, mental, and physical health problems] define you" often seems to mean "stop talking about [traumatic life-altering event] and pretend it never happened and doesn’t shape your life or else".
This is an important point.